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How to Have More Peace in Your Marriage and Motherhood

by Esther Littlefield | Relationships

Several years ago, a friend came over to my house. I had invited her over because she was good at organizing and home decorating, and I am not. As we reviewed the things I needed to accomplish within the house, she looked at me and said, “What you need is...

Being an Unqualified Mom is Where the Light Shines Through

by Esther Littlefield | Identity & Purpose, Leadership, Ministry

What do you do when you feel like an unqualified mom? Or an unqualified wife, or leader? What do you do when you feel broken? Wounded? What do you do when you recognize just how sinful you are? A couple weeks ago, I was getting my daughter ready for bed. We’ve...

Extravagant Love in Marriage: Are You All In?

by Esther Littlefield | Relationships

“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken.” -C.S. Lewis INCOMPATIBLE? A couple of years ago was a particularly challenging time for me and my husband. One day, we had an argument about something...
What to Do When the Tears Keep Falling: 5 Ways to Cope as a Mom

What to Do When the Tears Keep Falling: 5 Ways to Cope as a Mom

by Esther Littlefield | Leadership

I can’t do this. I’m not sure if I can keep going. I feel like giving up. Those are some of the thoughts that have been rolling around in my head the past few weeks and months. And as those thoughts roll around in my head, the tears keep falling down my...
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I’m so glad you’re here. I’m a pastor’s wife, mom of a spirited child, business owner and active leader in my church. I love leading women’s Bible studies, missions trips, marriage retreats (alongside my husband), and my business team. My hope is that this site will help you embrace your God-given gifts and lead with confidence.

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Instagram post 2196068679618583585_48387279 Ahhh, social media. We love it and and we hate it, right? There are so many ways that social media can cause harm... but then there’s also ways that it can be an influence for the good. As Christians, I believe we have a responsibility to use this tool well. To shine the light of Jesus in this dark world. And as leaders, it’s important to remember that everything we do on social has the ability to impact for good or for bad. To hear 4 ways you can use social media effectively as a Christian, take a listen to Episode 77 of the podcast. And tell me... what are your feelings about social media?
Instagram post 2190965322168088181_48387279 Christian leaders have an impeccable ability to spot problems and challenges. ⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ But sometimes we spend too much time getting frustrated and even outraged by these challenges, instead of focusing on how we can be a part of transforming culture.⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ And I believe that one way we can transform culture is by making hard conversations part of our life and leadership.⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ You can be a part of transforming your relationships, your workplace, your church and even culture as a whole.⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ Who's with me?⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ p.s. you can listen to episode 76 of the Christian Woman Leadership Podcast on your favorite podcast app to hear the 3 reasons why we need to have the hard conversations as leaders.⁠
Instagram post 2187296137227450988_48387279 Happy Thanksgiving, friends, from snowy Maine. I’m grateful for so much this year, and despite being sick on Thanksgiving, I know that I am very blessed. • For my God who sustains me • For my husband and daughter who love me despite my many flaws • For family who supports us in so many ways • For friends who cheer me on and challenge me • For my podcast co-host (who is also an amazing friend) who makes me laugh and keeps me on my toes • For our podcast listeners who have encouraged us and shared the ways the podcast has impacted them • For a year of being stretched and challenged, and for the potential of what’s going to come this next year I pray that you have a wonderful Thanksgiving, and that you take time to count your blessings.
Instagram post 2185722078219843335_48387279 Is it possible to disagree with others on social media in a respectful way?⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ Does disagreeing with someone mean that you have to treat them like the enemy?⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ How can we show love and grace when we disagree or talk about hard topics online?⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ These are some really important questions to be asking in the age of social media, especially as Christians.⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ And I'm so happy that my friend Angela Sackett @everydaywelcome was willing to dive into the conversation on our recent podcast episode.⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ She's someone I love and respect greatly, and one of the things I've seen her do very well is handle tough topics in the public sphere without becoming alarmist, fear-based, or angry.⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ Yet, she doesn't shy away from saying the hard things... with love and grace.⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ Take a listen to this clip and then head over to our podcast (episode 75) to hear the full convo.⁠
Instagram post 2178530168803882307_48387279 Saturday morning slow is my favorite. ❤️ What’s your favorite part of the weekend?Are you taking time to rest and re-charge?
Instagram post 2176602506833231678_48387279 Miscommunication is unavoidable in the workplace, but there are ways to reduce it. On the podcast this week, my friend Natalie of @theopsauthority shared this recommendation: get to know how your team members need to receive information! It might mean extra work for you, but you'll be supporting your team and providing them with more opportunity to succeed. Have you experienced miscommunication in your work or leadership roles? How has that affected you?
Instagram post 2173641772377653562_48387279 "Maybe you actually do have what it takes. Be open to the fact that maybe you actually do belong here." - Emily P. Freeman⁠ (@emilypfreeman) ⁠ Every time I attend a conference or an event, I get something out of it. As an avid learner, I'm always eagerly taking notes and looking for the strategies, tips, and practices I can put into place.⁠ ⁠ But sometimes, an event takes you by surprise and God decides to shake things up a bit. That's what happened for me here at the HopeWriters conference.⁠ ⁠ Yes, I learned so much from the sessions and the teaching. But I learned just as much, if not more, from the conversations and connections I've made.⁠ ⁠ I roomed with someone I had never met before, and it couldn't have been a better fit if we'd tried.⁠ ⁠ I've connected with several of my amazing podcast listeners and members of my FB community, and it's been wonderful to look them in the eyes and hear about their lives and what God is doing with them.⁠ ⁠ I chatted with Brian Dixon in real life after having done coaching with him online. ⁠ Through the teachers on stage and the chats in the hallways, the car rides, the meals... I've teared up more times than I can count. I've heard words my heart needed to hear. I've been challenged and inspired.⁠ ⁠ Sometimes it feels selfish pursuing this writing dream. But then I meet these people who are doing it, and I realize that the stories and messages we have to share are changing the world. And actually, to hold those back would be selfish.⁠ ⁠ So tonight I'm grateful. I'm humbled. And I'm ready to take my next steps.⁠
Instagram post 2171381245443780161_48387279 Can I get an amen?? Communication is not just about the words you say, but also about HOW you say them. And it’s also about your actions, your social media posts, and your attitude. On the podcast this week, Holly (@hollyacain) and I are breaking down this issue of communication and why it’s so important for us as Christian leaders. Plus we’re sharing 9 principles for effective communication that you can put into practice in your own life.
Instagram post 2165529600946748853_48387279 Have you ever lost sight of what's truly important in your life and leadership? Sometimes it takes a low moment to reveal that to us, as it did for Stefanie Gass @stefaniegass. The good news is that we don't have to hold onto that failure; God offers us forgiveness and we can move forward from there. Hear Stef's full story of losing success, rediscovering her faith, and gaining clarity aroung her calling in Episode 71 of the Christian Woman Leadership Podcast. #christianleadership
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  • Episode 77: How to Use Social Media to Effectively Communicate as a Christian Leader [Communication Series]
  • Episode 76: Three Reasons Why Leaders Need to Have Hard Conversations [Communication Series]
  • Episode 75: Saying Hard Things, Asking Tough Questions, & Showing Hospitality with Angela Sackett [Communication Series]

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