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How to Have More Peace in Your Marriage and Motherhood

by Esther Littlefield | Article, Relationships

Several years ago, a friend came over to my house. I had invited her over because she was good at organizing and home decorating, and I am not. As we reviewed the things I needed to accomplish within the house, she looked at me and said, “What you need is...

Being an Unqualified Mom is Where the Light Shines Through

by Esther Littlefield | Article, Identity & Purpose, Leadership, Ministry

What do you do when you feel like an unqualified mom? Or an unqualified wife, or leader? What do you do when you feel broken? Wounded? What do you do when you recognize just how sinful you are? A couple weeks ago, I was getting my daughter ready for bed. We’ve...

Extravagant Love in Marriage: Are You All In?

by Esther Littlefield | Article, Relationships

“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken.” -C.S. Lewis INCOMPATIBLE? A couple of years ago was a particularly challenging time for me and my husband. One day, we had an argument about something...
What to Do When the Tears Keep Falling: 5 Ways to Cope as a Mom

What to Do When the Tears Keep Falling: 5 Ways to Cope as a Mom

by Esther Littlefield | Article, Leadership

I can’t do this. I’m not sure if I can keep going. I feel like giving up. Those are some of the thoughts that have been rolling around in my head the past few weeks and months. And as those thoughts roll around in my head, the tears keep falling down my...
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I’m so glad you’re here. I’m a pastor’s wife, mom of a spirited child, business owner and active leader in my church. I love leading women’s Bible studies, missions trips, marriage retreats (alongside my husband), and my business team. My hope is that this site will help you embrace your God-given gifts and lead with confidence.

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Have you ever had an experience similar to Tembi's Have you ever had an experience similar to Tembi's?⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ Maybe you haven't heard from God as clearly as she did, but perhaps He has been speaking to your heart that it's time for a shift... it's time to move forward and not backwards.⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ If that's you, but you're afraid because you're not sure what will come next, take a listen to our full conversation with Tembi.⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ You'll be inspired as you hear about her transition from successful career with leadership roles to leaving it all behind for the unknown.⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ Listen to episode 83 on your favorite podcast app or on my website: estherlittlefield.com/episode83.⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ This episode is one of my favorites and I seriously can't wait to hear what you think!⁠
Can you help me decide?⁠ I have 2 book ideas... Can you help me decide?⁠ I have 2 book ideas... well actually 3. But 2 are currently at the surface and I'm working on a book proposal. I've started on both of these ideas but need to focus in on ONE for now.⁠ So tell me, which book would you be more interested in reading?⁠ 1. A book that helps Christian women who are surprised by leadership learn how to understand the true meaning and source of confidence, discover and walk in the purpose God has given them, and effectively lead those around them so they can accept and step into their leadership role with confidence.⁠ 2. A book that helps Christian leaders learn how to have conversations with love and grace both within and outside of Christianity so they can communicate the light and love of Jesus more effectively, creating transformation in relationships, workplaces, churches, and culture.⁠ Let me know below or send me a DM! I greatly appreciate it ❤️
Ever since I was a little girl, writing has been p Ever since I was a little girl, writing has been part of my life. I wrote in diaries and journals about the big and little things. And when my dad died suddenly when I was 13, writing is one of the ways I processed the grief.⁠ And since that time, I've had a dream in my heart to write a book. I started a blog 13+ years ago, but dabbled for most of that time. And I put that book idea on the back shelf.⁠ This past May, I joined a membership community called Hope*Writers. It was the step I knew I needed to take if I was going to take my writing seriously and actually pursue the dream of writing a book. And now I'm actively working on a book proposal, thanks to the Hope*Writers community.⁠ Maybe you can relate. Perhaps you don't want to write a book, but you know you have a message to share, and you're not sure how to get started. Or maybe, like me, you've been writing for years, and you aren't sure how to move into your next phase.⁠ I'd love to encourage you to check out Hope*Writers and consider joining us! The membership is open through the end of today (Jan. 17th), so click the link in my profile to find out more and see if it's a good fit for you right now.⁠ Do you have a dream of writing a book or starting a blog or sharing a message of any kind? I'd love to hear about it!⁠
If you've ever tried to pack a car up for a long r If you've ever tried to pack a car up for a long road trip, you know this is true. Making a minor shift can allow everything to fit the way it needs to. The same goes in our life and leadership as Christian women. There are times that shifts are necessary, but it takes intentionality to determine what those shifts are and how they should take place. In epsiode 82 of the podcast, I share about the 3 types of shifts you may need to make as a Christian leader: 1. Your Actions, which can include your habits, stepping out, and your words & conversations 2. Your Beliefs, which includes what you believe about God, what you believe about yourself, and what you believe about others 3. Your Commitments, which includes your time, your energy, and your boundaries Where might you need to make some shifts in 2020? #leadingwithconfidence #christianleaders #christianwoman #christianposts #spiritualgrowth #bethelight #christianlife #letyourlightshine #givemeJesus #coffeeandJesus #christianitytoday #proverbs31women #wellwateredwoman #pastorlife #christiancreatives #christianpodcast #leadershiptips #biblestudygroup #boundariesarehealthy #pastorswife #hopewriter #faithandfocus #catalystleader #womenforjesus #pastorwife #pastorswives #momsinministry #ministrywife #leadingandlovingit #womeninministry
Sometimes when I hear the word "shift" or "change" Sometimes when I hear the word "shift" or "change", I automatically assume that it's going to be a big, dramatic process. But shifting can look a few different ways: • A small move... like shifting a puzzle piece slightly so that it locks into place. • A big change... completely replacing one thing with something else. • Changing gears... when you shift up a gear, you’re able to go faster. When you downshift, you are slowing down. As you consider the potential shifts in your own life and leadership, think about whether it needs to be just a small shift, a larger shift, or perhaps a changing of gears. On today's podcast episode, I'm sharing the 3 shifts you need to make as a Christian leader this year, plus giving you some examples of how I'm making shifts in my own life. AND I created a whole guide to go along with the episode which you can grab for free. Now I'd love to know, have you sensed God telling you it's time to make some shifts in your life? #leadingwithconfidence #christianleadership #christianwoman #christianleaders #biblestudy #biblejournaling #proverbs31woman #Christianliving #christianwomen #christianfaith #butfirstJesus #shetheroar #personaldevelopmentjunkie #faithdriven #spiritualwellness #christianpodcast #selfawarenessjourney #incourage #shineforjesus #pastorswives #momsinministry #ministrywife #churchleaders #purposefulleadership #pastorwife #pastorswife #leadingandlovingit #womeninministry
One of the best ways for us as leaders to support One of the best ways for us as leaders to support others dealing with burnout, compassion fatigue, or mental health concerns is to talk about it. When we are vulnerable and share about our own struggles, this creates a safe space where our team is comfortable sharing as well. Instead of being ashamed of struggling, let's be willing to seek out the help and support we need, as well as offer support to those we lead. Have you seen leaders who model this kind of healthy vulnerability? #leadingwithconfidence #christianleadership #christianleaders #christian #christianquotes #shereadstruth #propelwomen #christianwoman #womeninministry #servantleadership #christianinspiration #healthyboundaries #biblestudymoments #leadingandlovingit #christianpodcast #christianspeaker #everythingchristian #personalwellness #pastorwife #confidentinchrist #christiandevotional #mentoringwomen #leadwithconfidence #extraordinaryleadership #pastorswives #pastorswife #momsinministry #ministrywife
If you've dealt with burnout or compassion fatigue If you've dealt with burnout or compassion fatigue, you might have felt guilt or shame about it. But Laura reminds us on this week’s podcast episode that you're likely experiencing these things not because of sin or wrongdoing, but because you're actually caring so much about the people you serve. It's important to remember this truth and then to seek out help and support so that you can recover. Have you ever been directly or indirectly affected by compassion fatigue or burnout?
I sat on the shore and watched the waves crash dow I sat on the shore and watched the waves crash down. I thought about some of the events of the past year. The challenges and disappointments and unanswered prayers. Ways I’ve let myself down and ways I’ve let others down. As the waves crashed, I thought about how they wash away what’s underneath them and bring in something new. And God reminded me that he can do the same for me. I’m ready to let go of the old and be open to the new. #hopewriterlife @hopewriters
For the past week, we’ve been on a family vacati For the past week, we’ve been on a family vacation and I’ve been on a social media break. It’s been such an amazing time and I am so grateful. One of my goals for the trip was to be present, so being off social helped me to do this. My other goal was to gain clarity around some goals and business decisions. I had to stop trying to rush it and just allow myself time to process and think and pray. I’m happy to share that I was able to get clear on where I’m starting for this year. I may not have the full picture of what it will look like (which is always my preference), but God reminded me that I don’t have to know the end result. I just need to know the next step. And for me, that is clear. I’m excited to share more in the next few weeks, but a shift is coming. Do you know your goals for 2020? Have you made time to think and plan? #christianleadership #christianleaders #2020goals #powersheets #shereadstruth #propelwomen #christianwoman #womeninministry #servantleadership #christianinspiration #healthyboundaries #biblestudymoments #leadingandlovingit #christianpodcast #christianspeaker #everythingchristian #personalwellness #pastorwife #confidentinchrist #christiandevotional #mentoringwomen #leadwithconfidence #extraordinaryleadership #pastorswives #pastorswife #momsinministry #ministrywife
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